Last week, while getting acquainted with some new friends, the question was asked, "What would you order if you could choose your last meal?" It's a simple question, a silly conversation starter. I was so fascinated by those who could answer without the slightest pause, not just what they'd have but where it would come from. I still don't have a solid answer, but I'm working on it ...
I spent the majority of my first 27 years learning how to please other people, becoming a master at keeping others happy. If I had an opinion about something important, I rarely expressed it. And, sometimes, I even downplayed my opinion about unimportant things.
Tonight, as I prepared to enjoy a very quiet evening at home by myself, it occurred to me that, at just past 30, I'm finally discovering how to enjoy the things that please me most. And, I'm discovering that the things that please me are the simplest of pleasures. It's rewarding and comforting to begin to recognize my preferences for everything from pasta to hand cream, wrapping paper to bubble bath, radio stations to men. I still have precious few preferences that I would not gladly surrender in favor of another's comfort, but there is something satisfying about identifying my personal preferences and being able to articulate them, if even for just myself.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Monday, December 22, 2008
Hagar and Heroes
In Scripture, the first time we are introduced to God as "El Roi," The God Who Sees, is in Genesis 16, in the story of Hagar. Hagar was a maidservant turned fertile concubine. Her fertility was a slap in the face to Sarah, who'd sought for years to bear Abraham a son. She was prideful about her pregnancy, and Sarah mistreated her. So she fled. Alone. Frightened. Without provision. Without status. Without hope. And, it was in that place, weeping by the roadside, that an angel of the LORD appears to her, delivering a message from God Himself. Upon receiving the message, the promise of protection and provision for herself and her unborn child, she calls the LORD, El Roi, "the God who sees me."
In discussing the teaching of this story with a friend the other day, I was asked the question, "How do you make a hero out of Hagar?" You see, she wanted to tell this woman's story, but she didn't quite feel comfortable with making her a heroine. In a moment I can only describe as Providential, I said the first thing that came to mind. "You don't." You see, Hagar is not the hero of this story; God is. He is always the Hero. The story isn't about her; it's about the God who sees her, the God who sees the invisible woman.
It's why we love Him. It's why we stand in awe of Him. It's why we need Him.
Thinking about Hagar also got me to thinking about another, more prominent Biblical woman - Mary. It is Christmas time after all, and certainly, we're hearing more about her right now. Mary, the amazing woman-child who bore the incarnate deity. The chosen servant of God. I've heard a number of sermons extolling her virtues. But you know what? Mary isn't anymore a heroine than Hagar is. God is the Hero in her story, too. He didn't choose her to bear the Christ child because of how worthy she was, but because of how unlikely she was. He is in the business of displaying His glory. It's always about Him.
And, that gets me to thinking about my story, and who the hero is there. It certainly isn't me. When God's power is displayed in human frailty, that isn't cause for me to boast. Paul said it best in II Corinthians 11:30, "If I must boast, I will boast in things that display my weakness." In other words, don't see me, and if you do see me, see how weak I am. Only when you recognize how weak I am, can you understand how GREAT God is.
He is always the Hero.
In discussing the teaching of this story with a friend the other day, I was asked the question, "How do you make a hero out of Hagar?" You see, she wanted to tell this woman's story, but she didn't quite feel comfortable with making her a heroine. In a moment I can only describe as Providential, I said the first thing that came to mind. "You don't." You see, Hagar is not the hero of this story; God is. He is always the Hero. The story isn't about her; it's about the God who sees her, the God who sees the invisible woman.
It's why we love Him. It's why we stand in awe of Him. It's why we need Him.
Thinking about Hagar also got me to thinking about another, more prominent Biblical woman - Mary. It is Christmas time after all, and certainly, we're hearing more about her right now. Mary, the amazing woman-child who bore the incarnate deity. The chosen servant of God. I've heard a number of sermons extolling her virtues. But you know what? Mary isn't anymore a heroine than Hagar is. God is the Hero in her story, too. He didn't choose her to bear the Christ child because of how worthy she was, but because of how unlikely she was. He is in the business of displaying His glory. It's always about Him.
And, that gets me to thinking about my story, and who the hero is there. It certainly isn't me. When God's power is displayed in human frailty, that isn't cause for me to boast. Paul said it best in II Corinthians 11:30, "If I must boast, I will boast in things that display my weakness." In other words, don't see me, and if you do see me, see how weak I am. Only when you recognize how weak I am, can you understand how GREAT God is.
He is always the Hero.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Christmas Survey
1. Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? Usually hot chocolate except for a small eggnog milkshake for New Year's
2. Funny Holiday memory as a child: Pick a Horton family telecast, any telecast.
3. Colored or white lights on your house? White
4. Do you hang mistletoe? As if my life needed more awkward moments.
5. When do you put your decorations up? Weekend after Thanksgiving, maximum enjoyment of all that effort
6. Do you remember your favorite gift? Probably my American Girl doll, Samantha
7. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? He wraps them.
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I knew he was real when I got that cassette tape with a message recorded just for me!
9. Do you open gifts on Christmas Eve? Usually, but NOT stockings
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? White lights, red ribbon, red, green, gold ornaments, and lots of stars!
11. Snow? A few inches can be fun.
12. Can you ice skate? Can I, yes? Should I, probably not.
13. What is your favorite holiday dish? Mom's baked carrots
14. What's the most important thing about the Holiday for you? Family togetherness and time to reflect on the real Gift, Jesus.
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? Candy corns. Oh, wrong holiday? :-)
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? Stockings on Christmas morning
17. What tops your tree? A gold star
18. Which do you prefer Giving or Receiving? Definitely giving
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? It's a tie between "O Come O Come Emmanuel" and "Joy to the World"
20. Candy Canes or Chocolate Covered Cherries? Neither?
2. Funny Holiday memory as a child: Pick a Horton family telecast, any telecast.
3. Colored or white lights on your house? White
4. Do you hang mistletoe? As if my life needed more awkward moments.
5. When do you put your decorations up? Weekend after Thanksgiving, maximum enjoyment of all that effort
6. Do you remember your favorite gift? Probably my American Girl doll, Samantha
7. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? He wraps them.
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I knew he was real when I got that cassette tape with a message recorded just for me!
9. Do you open gifts on Christmas Eve? Usually, but NOT stockings
10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree? White lights, red ribbon, red, green, gold ornaments, and lots of stars!
11. Snow? A few inches can be fun.
12. Can you ice skate? Can I, yes? Should I, probably not.
13. What is your favorite holiday dish? Mom's baked carrots
14. What's the most important thing about the Holiday for you? Family togetherness and time to reflect on the real Gift, Jesus.
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? Candy corns. Oh, wrong holiday? :-)
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? Stockings on Christmas morning
17. What tops your tree? A gold star
18. Which do you prefer Giving or Receiving? Definitely giving
19. What is your favorite Christmas Song? It's a tie between "O Come O Come Emmanuel" and "Joy to the World"
20. Candy Canes or Chocolate Covered Cherries? Neither?
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Bad News Good News
This past weekend, I had the challenge of teaching Sunday School from a passage in I Kings 18.
It's a fairly familiar story for most of us who grew up around church about Elijah, the prophet of God, who challenges 450 prophets of Ba'al to prove who is the One True God by building altars and seeing whose God ignites it first.
There's a great challenge in the passage where Elijah calls the Israelites together and asks them how long they will limp along between two opinions. (As our pastor put it, it's difficult to run when you're straddling a fence!) Then he calls them out saying, "If the LORD is God, follow Him; if Ba'al is god, follow him." The lesson was all about choices in life and choosing the right God and being fully committed to Him and confident of His faithfulness despite all odds.
You see, from a human standpoint, the prophets of Ba'al definitely had an advantage. There were 450 of them! They had the support of the king and queen. And, in what turned out to be a sudden death match, they won the coin toss. And, they were deeply committed to their false god. They danced and sang and shouted and even cut themselves for hours trying to get his attention and call down fire for their altar. And, just in case all those advantages weren't enough, Elijah went ahead and stacked the odds a little more in their favor (Crazy or Jesus?). He had his altar drenched in water, not one or two, but THREE times before he even began to pray.
But, then he prayed. And his requests were simple. He prayed for four things. 1. Show these people that the LORD is God. 2. Show them that I am your servant. 3. Show these people that You are the One True God. 4. Draw these people back to yourself. (always, always, always a redemptive purpose!)
As soon as the prayer was off his lips, fire fell from heaven and consumed the sacrifice, the altar, the STONES of the altar, and licked up all the water around the altar! God left NO DOUBT about who was in control that day.
And all the people fell on their faces and worshipped.
And Elijah seized all 450 prophets of Ba'al and slew them.
Do you know how badly I wished this story had ended with the people face down in worship? That's what I call some happily ever after. But, it didn't end there. It ends with the slaying of 450 men. Here's where I need to confess that growing up in church, having heard most of the stories of the Bible a number of times, I rarely blink at such a statement. It's always been taught to me in such a way that I would tend to think, "and the good guys won and went out for a milkshake and the bad guys lost," as though they were heading back to their arena to prepare for the next contest, rather than heading into a godless eternity.
So, most of last week I wrestled with this ending. What was it supposed to teach us? What does it say about God? About sin? About worship? About violence? Was it necessary? Why was it necessary? And the questions go on and on and on.
The first thing I determined is that there is a lesson in the slaying of the false prophets. There's a lesson about how much God hates sin. There's a lesson about how seriously He deals with sin. There's a lesson about the necessity of eradicating any hint of impurity from among the people of God. And, ultimately, there's a lesson about good news and bad news.
It is often said that the Gospel is not good news until one understands how bad the bad news really is. Until one understands his desperate need for a Savior, the fact that Christ died for him doesn't truly thrill him as it ought. In much the same way, God's love is not nearly as powerful to us until we understand how severe his hatred of sin is. Once we begin to grasp how much God hates sin, then we can begin to grasp the miracle of His love for sinners.
The same choice that Elijah put forth to the people of Israel is the choice each of us must make. Many of us want Jesus as our Savior, but we haven't even begun to accept Him as Lord in our lives. The reality is, though, that there's not an option to have Him as Savior without making Him Lord. If the LORD is God, choose Him.
It's a fairly familiar story for most of us who grew up around church about Elijah, the prophet of God, who challenges 450 prophets of Ba'al to prove who is the One True God by building altars and seeing whose God ignites it first.
There's a great challenge in the passage where Elijah calls the Israelites together and asks them how long they will limp along between two opinions. (As our pastor put it, it's difficult to run when you're straddling a fence!) Then he calls them out saying, "If the LORD is God, follow Him; if Ba'al is god, follow him." The lesson was all about choices in life and choosing the right God and being fully committed to Him and confident of His faithfulness despite all odds.
You see, from a human standpoint, the prophets of Ba'al definitely had an advantage. There were 450 of them! They had the support of the king and queen. And, in what turned out to be a sudden death match, they won the coin toss. And, they were deeply committed to their false god. They danced and sang and shouted and even cut themselves for hours trying to get his attention and call down fire for their altar. And, just in case all those advantages weren't enough, Elijah went ahead and stacked the odds a little more in their favor (Crazy or Jesus?). He had his altar drenched in water, not one or two, but THREE times before he even began to pray.
But, then he prayed. And his requests were simple. He prayed for four things. 1. Show these people that the LORD is God. 2. Show them that I am your servant. 3. Show these people that You are the One True God. 4. Draw these people back to yourself. (always, always, always a redemptive purpose!)
As soon as the prayer was off his lips, fire fell from heaven and consumed the sacrifice, the altar, the STONES of the altar, and licked up all the water around the altar! God left NO DOUBT about who was in control that day.
And all the people fell on their faces and worshipped.
And Elijah seized all 450 prophets of Ba'al and slew them.
Do you know how badly I wished this story had ended with the people face down in worship? That's what I call some happily ever after. But, it didn't end there. It ends with the slaying of 450 men. Here's where I need to confess that growing up in church, having heard most of the stories of the Bible a number of times, I rarely blink at such a statement. It's always been taught to me in such a way that I would tend to think, "and the good guys won and went out for a milkshake and the bad guys lost," as though they were heading back to their arena to prepare for the next contest, rather than heading into a godless eternity.
So, most of last week I wrestled with this ending. What was it supposed to teach us? What does it say about God? About sin? About worship? About violence? Was it necessary? Why was it necessary? And the questions go on and on and on.
The first thing I determined is that there is a lesson in the slaying of the false prophets. There's a lesson about how much God hates sin. There's a lesson about how seriously He deals with sin. There's a lesson about the necessity of eradicating any hint of impurity from among the people of God. And, ultimately, there's a lesson about good news and bad news.
It is often said that the Gospel is not good news until one understands how bad the bad news really is. Until one understands his desperate need for a Savior, the fact that Christ died for him doesn't truly thrill him as it ought. In much the same way, God's love is not nearly as powerful to us until we understand how severe his hatred of sin is. Once we begin to grasp how much God hates sin, then we can begin to grasp the miracle of His love for sinners.
The same choice that Elijah put forth to the people of Israel is the choice each of us must make. Many of us want Jesus as our Savior, but we haven't even begun to accept Him as Lord in our lives. The reality is, though, that there's not an option to have Him as Savior without making Him Lord. If the LORD is God, choose Him.
Saturday, December 06, 2008
Caption Contest
This was my friend Kolton's visit to Santa Claus this year. I'm not sure who was more traumatized, Kolton or Santa!
What should the caption under this photo say???
What should the caption under this photo say???
Friday, November 21, 2008
I <3 Thanksgiving
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and all that is within me,
bless His holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and forget none of His benefits;
who pardons all your iniquities,
who heals all your diseases;
who redeems your life from the pit,
who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;
who satisfies your years with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagle!
Psalm 103:1-5
Dear Loved Ones,
I heard someone say once that "Thanksgiving is how we live our lives when we're truly grateful for all the blessings we've received." It's not about a day or aseason, but that doesn't keep me from loving the opportunity to take time, with so many others, to express gratitude for a very full life. God has been ridiculously kind to me, and I could never, with words, fully express the gratitude that deserves. Perhaps, in light of God's goodness, Thanksgiving is a better time for us to make fresh resolutions than New Years? Just a thought.
Where should I begin the list this year? I hardly know to tell you the truth. In past years, I've made lists by category or by alphabet. Somehow, this year, it seems appropriate to just walk through the year. It's been a HUGE one in my little life. And, each of you has been a part of it in some measure, no doubt.
January began with a CWJC State Leadership Retreat, and an amazing group of women from Baytown who introduced me to tee-pee time. The tears and the laughter of those nights have warmed me through many days this year. And, of course, January ended with a grand celebration of Papa's 40 years of ministry at the Rio Hondo Baptist Church. The inspiration of his ongoing legacy there, challenges me to press on during the difficult weeks.
February brought a great victory in my culinary attempts when I successfully made not one, but TWO, Tres Leches cakes from scratch! February also brought Kimbo and Jeremy back to the area and gave me the opportunity to renew a precious friendship. Their home has provided hospitality, laughter, and refuge after many a long day this year.
March began with an opportunity to speak to the women of Wedgwood at FACETS about the subject of "saturating" their lives in the Word of God. I was so blessed to have the opportunity to share what the Lord had been teaching me and to have such amazing, supportive friends who know me so well, but came to my session anyway! March also brought my first opportunity for a little physical challenge as Erika and I signed up for and completed the Butterfly Boogie 5K benefitting the World Craniofacial Foundation. Rarely have I known such a thrill as crossing that finish line! And, little did I know that it would be just the beginning of my thirst for athletic achievement. (Who in the world becomes an "athlete" at 29?!?)
In April, I nearly bought a house. And, I completed another 5K benefitting the Women's Center of Tarrant County. I am still not entirely sure what the house thing was about. I know I was supposed to go through that process, to learn all that I did about the market and the issues involved in purchasing a home. I even made an offer! But, when the seller counter-offered, and I knew I could stop right there, I was so RELIEVED. I was not ready for that commitment, but it took getting that far into the process to figure that out. Looking back, I'm still so thankful I went that far, and even more thankful I stopped.
I have one word for May. Peru. I'm sure I did other things that month, but that's what stands out on my calendar. 11 days in Peru. Overnight flights, mototaxies, 8 hour boat rides, hammocks, mosquitoes, openair worship services, Amazon river baptisms, mud volleyball, glorious scenery, and the incredible provision of God. And, the lesson from those fateful days was the simple glory of the Gospel. Salvation is still the greatest news ever shared with mankind. Jesus, the Way, the Truth, and the Life is a message that transcends every culture.
In June, I had the joy of taking my beloved [YOOJ]ers through Habakkuk, the story of one faithful prophet's determination to put all his hope in the steadfast character of a good God and wait patiently for God's glory to be revealed despite the dismal circumstances around him. I think one of the reasons I love teaching God's Word so much is that it's impossible to prepare to teach anything without out learning the lessons first. I am always changed in the preparation of delivering a lesson from the Word of God. June also brought VBS and a week of rocking babies and the joy of making new friends in the pre-school ministry. The blessing of that week was finding out that I really do enjoy rocking babies -- then returning them to their moms! ;-)
July was a very busy month. Joanna moved back from Dubai, and we became roommates. Almost as soon as she got here, we began remodeling/updating the house including new paint in the kitchen, bathroom, entryway, den, bedrooms, and new flooring in the kitchen and bathroom, not to mention all the work her mom did in the yard and garage! Joanna is one of my oldest friends from my time in Fort Worth. I often tell people that when I first visited Wedgwood, she decided we were going to be friends and that was the end of it. She's been away for four years, and we've both changed a lot in that time, but it's been sweet to find that we haven't outgrown our friendship. July also brought a week of CWJC Level 2 certification training in Dallas. Any opportunity to be with my CWJC family is a guaranteed blessing, and that week was no different. What a joy it is to know that I have sisters (and a few brothers) around the state laboring in this same work. July ended with the Awakening Women's Conference in Fort Worth and another opportunity to talk to women about saturating their lives in the Word of God. Awakening also marked the beginning of my newest adventure, the hope for a CWJC in Parker County! More about that a little later. ;-) July was also when we found out baby Potter was on the way!
Josh brought Esther to Texas to meet "the family" over the end of July, beginning of August, and I think we all agree that we'll welcome her gladly. That was a really fun week marked with lots of time with my sweet, sweet family of friends. Gina came up that first weekend in August, too, to drag me to a concert. Now, you guys that know me, know that I don't love concerts. I prefer volume control. However, I have to say that I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of Colbie Cailait and John Mayer. In August, I also attended the Willow Creek Leadership Summit via simulcast with the rest of the Cornerstone staff. I honestly can't think of another conference that's had a greater impact on my life and ministry than those 2 days. I find myself frequently going back to messages I heard that week and repeating the prayer, "God, let my life count. Please use me to make a difference in another life, many other lives." I don't know what the long range outcome of that prayer will be, but I can tell you that when you begin asking God for opportunities to make a Kingdom difference, He is generous to provide. August also included a really fun weekend trip with Joanna and Erika. We did our best to see as much of Central Texas as possible in 36 hours, stopping in Austin for Jaxon's 3rd birthday, continuing on to San Antonio for Kat and Jason's fabulous wedding celebration, spending the night in New Braunfels, then making the most of tax-free weekend by spending a full day in San Marcos! August ended with a Gautier (Horton) family reunion in Austin and Killeen. It's good to go back, to be reminded of the heritage that brought you this far, to connect with family you don't see often enough.
I know you keep thinking one of these months is going to be less exciting than the others, but September was nothing short of wonderful. It began with a girls' weekend in Shreveport to celebrate Steph's upcoming wedding. When laughter is one of your favorite activities, there's little better than a roadtrip with 6 of your closest girlfriends! The next weekend was Stephanie and Ryan's wedding, a wonderful celebration of God's faithfulness to two people who've been determined to trust Him to accomplish all that He'd promised in their lives. September was also the fall kickoff event for the Lifetime Women's Ministry at Wedgwood, a style show benefitting CCWJC! It was so much fun to take two of my ladies shopping, to see them walk the runway as models, and to see them embraced by the gracious women of Wedgwood. By far and away the BEST thing about September, was the introduction of my "Beloved" G2 group. 8 women, committed to becoming better disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ through weekly time together and daily time in the Word. I LOVE these women and am so humbled to be their leader. Finally, I must confess, my favorite pasttime in September was this fabulous habit D'Ann and I got into on Saturday evenings of ordering pizza and watching college football and/or Law and Order: SVU. I mean, can you imagine a more perfect evening? :-P
Then came October. How do I even begin to tell you about October? A trip to Abilene for Linda Carleton's retirement breakfast. My 30th birthday and so many of you who celebrated with me. The CAN Staff retreat at Riverbend where I was reminded again just what a blessing my job is and how thankful I am for my coworkers. The birth of Carrington Maclin Hood. Completing the Blackland Triathlon with my dad, Melissa, and Joanna, a serious thrill of victory. Reconnecting with my precious friend, Rebecca and seeing what God's done in her life. Being elected to the board of directors for WMU of Texas, honored to be counted among such an incredible group of women. Sending Jake, Dodie, and Hannah off to the mission field and being reminded that all of life is a transition. The Wonder House costume party and seeing a new generation of Wedgies embracing life together. Just thinking about October makes me sigh deeply, contentedly.
And, now, here we sit with November 2/3 gone by. November began with a fabulous thing called Angie and Kristen Day which isn't about any set plan, just coveted time with my very best friend. It just so happened we worked in some Mexican Inn, a great chick flick, shopping, and football -- some of my other favorite things. Just four days into this month, our nation elected a new president, and I sat quietly in front of the television, keenly aware that I was watching history unfold. November has also given me opportunity to make some of my most solid contacts yet regarding the possibility of a CWJC in Parker County. I told you that in July, God brought the first of what would quickly become MANY women interested in a Christian Women's Job Corps site for Weatherford and/or Aledo. I do not know the last time I was so on the edge of my seat to see what God would do next. I have purposefully refused to move an inch wihtout His leadership, but the doors continue to fly open. He seems to have His heart set on the women of Parker County, and it's been an honor to meet so many of His faithful servants in that area. A very unexpected blessing this month was dinner with Matthew and Lindsay who've recently moved to Weatherford. How my heart was encouraged and my spirit quickened as we spent time catching up and sharing how the Lord has done great things for us over the time since we saw one another last! November also gave me an opportunity to witness the marriage of my dear friend Meredith to her beloved Afshin. This meant a trip back to Plano/Prestonwood and a sweet reunion with many familiar faces. How I loved catching up and laughing with Heather and Ashlee during the reception!
I know I must stop writing and I should go back and edit, but that's the joy of a blog. I don't have to. I know I haven't told you yet about Travis' Eleven Fingered Charlie concerts this year; my new friends in the NGen ministry; a visit from Uncle Tracey, Aunt Susan, Tiffany, Dustin, Kaylenn, and Tucker; lunch with Uncle Butch; and the coolest new friendship God's given me this year, my beloved Ann.
I shudder to think of everything else I've surely failed to mention. The point is, dear ones, that I have been richly blessed and my heart overflows as I attempt to express gratitude this Thanksgiving.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and all that is within me,
bless His holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and forget none of His benefits;
who pardons all your iniquities,
who heals all your diseases;
who redeems your life from the pit,
who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;
who satisfies your years with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagle!
Psalm 103:1-5
and all that is within me,
bless His holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and forget none of His benefits;
who pardons all your iniquities,
who heals all your diseases;
who redeems your life from the pit,
who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;
who satisfies your years with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagle!
Psalm 103:1-5
Dear Loved Ones,
I heard someone say once that "Thanksgiving is how we live our lives when we're truly grateful for all the blessings we've received." It's not about a day or aseason, but that doesn't keep me from loving the opportunity to take time, with so many others, to express gratitude for a very full life. God has been ridiculously kind to me, and I could never, with words, fully express the gratitude that deserves. Perhaps, in light of God's goodness, Thanksgiving is a better time for us to make fresh resolutions than New Years? Just a thought.
Where should I begin the list this year? I hardly know to tell you the truth. In past years, I've made lists by category or by alphabet. Somehow, this year, it seems appropriate to just walk through the year. It's been a HUGE one in my little life. And, each of you has been a part of it in some measure, no doubt.
January began with a CWJC State Leadership Retreat, and an amazing group of women from Baytown who introduced me to tee-pee time. The tears and the laughter of those nights have warmed me through many days this year. And, of course, January ended with a grand celebration of Papa's 40 years of ministry at the Rio Hondo Baptist Church. The inspiration of his ongoing legacy there, challenges me to press on during the difficult weeks.
February brought a great victory in my culinary attempts when I successfully made not one, but TWO, Tres Leches cakes from scratch! February also brought Kimbo and Jeremy back to the area and gave me the opportunity to renew a precious friendship. Their home has provided hospitality, laughter, and refuge after many a long day this year.
March began with an opportunity to speak to the women of Wedgwood at FACETS about the subject of "saturating" their lives in the Word of God. I was so blessed to have the opportunity to share what the Lord had been teaching me and to have such amazing, supportive friends who know me so well, but came to my session anyway! March also brought my first opportunity for a little physical challenge as Erika and I signed up for and completed the Butterfly Boogie 5K benefitting the World Craniofacial Foundation. Rarely have I known such a thrill as crossing that finish line! And, little did I know that it would be just the beginning of my thirst for athletic achievement. (Who in the world becomes an "athlete" at 29?!?)
In April, I nearly bought a house. And, I completed another 5K benefitting the Women's Center of Tarrant County. I am still not entirely sure what the house thing was about. I know I was supposed to go through that process, to learn all that I did about the market and the issues involved in purchasing a home. I even made an offer! But, when the seller counter-offered, and I knew I could stop right there, I was so RELIEVED. I was not ready for that commitment, but it took getting that far into the process to figure that out. Looking back, I'm still so thankful I went that far, and even more thankful I stopped.
I have one word for May. Peru. I'm sure I did other things that month, but that's what stands out on my calendar. 11 days in Peru. Overnight flights, mototaxies, 8 hour boat rides, hammocks, mosquitoes, openair worship services, Amazon river baptisms, mud volleyball, glorious scenery, and the incredible provision of God. And, the lesson from those fateful days was the simple glory of the Gospel. Salvation is still the greatest news ever shared with mankind. Jesus, the Way, the Truth, and the Life is a message that transcends every culture.
In June, I had the joy of taking my beloved [YOOJ]ers through Habakkuk, the story of one faithful prophet's determination to put all his hope in the steadfast character of a good God and wait patiently for God's glory to be revealed despite the dismal circumstances around him. I think one of the reasons I love teaching God's Word so much is that it's impossible to prepare to teach anything without out learning the lessons first. I am always changed in the preparation of delivering a lesson from the Word of God. June also brought VBS and a week of rocking babies and the joy of making new friends in the pre-school ministry. The blessing of that week was finding out that I really do enjoy rocking babies -- then returning them to their moms! ;-)
July was a very busy month. Joanna moved back from Dubai, and we became roommates. Almost as soon as she got here, we began remodeling/updating the house including new paint in the kitchen, bathroom, entryway, den, bedrooms, and new flooring in the kitchen and bathroom, not to mention all the work her mom did in the yard and garage! Joanna is one of my oldest friends from my time in Fort Worth. I often tell people that when I first visited Wedgwood, she decided we were going to be friends and that was the end of it. She's been away for four years, and we've both changed a lot in that time, but it's been sweet to find that we haven't outgrown our friendship. July also brought a week of CWJC Level 2 certification training in Dallas. Any opportunity to be with my CWJC family is a guaranteed blessing, and that week was no different. What a joy it is to know that I have sisters (and a few brothers) around the state laboring in this same work. July ended with the Awakening Women's Conference in Fort Worth and another opportunity to talk to women about saturating their lives in the Word of God. Awakening also marked the beginning of my newest adventure, the hope for a CWJC in Parker County! More about that a little later. ;-) July was also when we found out baby Potter was on the way!
Josh brought Esther to Texas to meet "the family" over the end of July, beginning of August, and I think we all agree that we'll welcome her gladly. That was a really fun week marked with lots of time with my sweet, sweet family of friends. Gina came up that first weekend in August, too, to drag me to a concert. Now, you guys that know me, know that I don't love concerts. I prefer volume control. However, I have to say that I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of Colbie Cailait and John Mayer. In August, I also attended the Willow Creek Leadership Summit via simulcast with the rest of the Cornerstone staff. I honestly can't think of another conference that's had a greater impact on my life and ministry than those 2 days. I find myself frequently going back to messages I heard that week and repeating the prayer, "God, let my life count. Please use me to make a difference in another life, many other lives." I don't know what the long range outcome of that prayer will be, but I can tell you that when you begin asking God for opportunities to make a Kingdom difference, He is generous to provide. August also included a really fun weekend trip with Joanna and Erika. We did our best to see as much of Central Texas as possible in 36 hours, stopping in Austin for Jaxon's 3rd birthday, continuing on to San Antonio for Kat and Jason's fabulous wedding celebration, spending the night in New Braunfels, then making the most of tax-free weekend by spending a full day in San Marcos! August ended with a Gautier (Horton) family reunion in Austin and Killeen. It's good to go back, to be reminded of the heritage that brought you this far, to connect with family you don't see often enough.
I know you keep thinking one of these months is going to be less exciting than the others, but September was nothing short of wonderful. It began with a girls' weekend in Shreveport to celebrate Steph's upcoming wedding. When laughter is one of your favorite activities, there's little better than a roadtrip with 6 of your closest girlfriends! The next weekend was Stephanie and Ryan's wedding, a wonderful celebration of God's faithfulness to two people who've been determined to trust Him to accomplish all that He'd promised in their lives. September was also the fall kickoff event for the Lifetime Women's Ministry at Wedgwood, a style show benefitting CCWJC! It was so much fun to take two of my ladies shopping, to see them walk the runway as models, and to see them embraced by the gracious women of Wedgwood. By far and away the BEST thing about September, was the introduction of my "Beloved" G2 group. 8 women, committed to becoming better disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ through weekly time together and daily time in the Word. I LOVE these women and am so humbled to be their leader. Finally, I must confess, my favorite pasttime in September was this fabulous habit D'Ann and I got into on Saturday evenings of ordering pizza and watching college football and/or Law and Order: SVU. I mean, can you imagine a more perfect evening? :-P
Then came October. How do I even begin to tell you about October? A trip to Abilene for Linda Carleton's retirement breakfast. My 30th birthday and so many of you who celebrated with me. The CAN Staff retreat at Riverbend where I was reminded again just what a blessing my job is and how thankful I am for my coworkers. The birth of Carrington Maclin Hood. Completing the Blackland Triathlon with my dad, Melissa, and Joanna, a serious thrill of victory. Reconnecting with my precious friend, Rebecca and seeing what God's done in her life. Being elected to the board of directors for WMU of Texas, honored to be counted among such an incredible group of women. Sending Jake, Dodie, and Hannah off to the mission field and being reminded that all of life is a transition. The Wonder House costume party and seeing a new generation of Wedgies embracing life together. Just thinking about October makes me sigh deeply, contentedly.
And, now, here we sit with November 2/3 gone by. November began with a fabulous thing called Angie and Kristen Day which isn't about any set plan, just coveted time with my very best friend. It just so happened we worked in some Mexican Inn, a great chick flick, shopping, and football -- some of my other favorite things. Just four days into this month, our nation elected a new president, and I sat quietly in front of the television, keenly aware that I was watching history unfold. November has also given me opportunity to make some of my most solid contacts yet regarding the possibility of a CWJC in Parker County. I told you that in July, God brought the first of what would quickly become MANY women interested in a Christian Women's Job Corps site for Weatherford and/or Aledo. I do not know the last time I was so on the edge of my seat to see what God would do next. I have purposefully refused to move an inch wihtout His leadership, but the doors continue to fly open. He seems to have His heart set on the women of Parker County, and it's been an honor to meet so many of His faithful servants in that area. A very unexpected blessing this month was dinner with Matthew and Lindsay who've recently moved to Weatherford. How my heart was encouraged and my spirit quickened as we spent time catching up and sharing how the Lord has done great things for us over the time since we saw one another last! November also gave me an opportunity to witness the marriage of my dear friend Meredith to her beloved Afshin. This meant a trip back to Plano/Prestonwood and a sweet reunion with many familiar faces. How I loved catching up and laughing with Heather and Ashlee during the reception!
I know I must stop writing and I should go back and edit, but that's the joy of a blog. I don't have to. I know I haven't told you yet about Travis' Eleven Fingered Charlie concerts this year; my new friends in the NGen ministry; a visit from Uncle Tracey, Aunt Susan, Tiffany, Dustin, Kaylenn, and Tucker; lunch with Uncle Butch; and the coolest new friendship God's given me this year, my beloved Ann.
I shudder to think of everything else I've surely failed to mention. The point is, dear ones, that I have been richly blessed and my heart overflows as I attempt to express gratitude this Thanksgiving.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and all that is within me,
bless His holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul,
and forget none of His benefits;
who pardons all your iniquities,
who heals all your diseases;
who redeems your life from the pit,
who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;
who satisfies your years with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagle!
Psalm 103:1-5
Monday, November 17, 2008
To Blog or Not to Blog
A conversation happened around me this weekend that a lesser woman might have been offended by. Friends I had not seen in a very long time were discussing blogging and how pointless they found it and wondering aloud why anyone would want to keep an "online diary." I stayed quiet and purposefully did not make eye contact with the one person in the circle who knew I had a blog. It wasn't that I was afraid to tell them. It wasn't that I was embarrassed or was secretly planning to come home and delete every entry I've made in the last 3 years. It was that I needed time to contemplate exactly why it is that I do blog. Is this really just an online diary? If so, I tend to agree, that's pretty twisted. But, it's not. First of all, this blog looks nothing like my personal journal. Trust me. Second, I think my biggest reason for blogging is written in my profile. I'm an external processor. This is a great way for me to "think aloud" without forcing anyone to listen. If you choose to read, so be it. If you ignore it entirely, no harm done. Third, I heard a Bible teacher say one time that you could always tell someone with the spiritual gift of teaching because as soon as the Lord teaches them something, they've got to rush out and teach it to someone else. Before reading that, I'm not sure I really knew I had the gift of teaching, but if that really is evidence of someone with that gift, she nailed it for me. I get so excited and overwhelmed when God blesses me with a fresh insight into His work in my life that I can hardly wait to tell it. Again, read if you care to; ignore it if you don't, but you can't say I didn't try. :-)
All of this I say today because as I was going through my morning routine this morning, God was blessing me through His word, through the kind, timely words of a dear friend, through reminders of His riches poured out around me. My heart is full today. And, blogging gives me a chance to just tell someone -- maybe a lot of someones, probably just a few, but someone.
All of this I say today because as I was going through my morning routine this morning, God was blessing me through His word, through the kind, timely words of a dear friend, through reminders of His riches poured out around me. My heart is full today. And, blogging gives me a chance to just tell someone -- maybe a lot of someones, probably just a few, but someone.
Saturday, November 15, 2008
The Fringes
I had a "why?" moment with God last night. I was laying in bed, thinking about various things, and one frustration in particular. I see God's hand clearly in the situation, but I don't understand the way He's moving at the moment. As I lay there discussing my thoughts on the matter with Him, I finally got up the courage to ask what was really in my heart. "But, why? Why is it this way? Why this timing? Why something painful that frustrates me so?"
About that time, my iPod switched songs. My iPod is almost always set to "random shuffle" when I'm home. I love that it can go from Rascal Flatts to the Prestonwood Choir and Orchestra to Eleven Fingered Charlie to Brooke Frasier to Bing Crosby. It amuses me. And, occassionally, I'm absolutely convinced God orchestrates things just so the song I need to hear plays when I need it most. That's why I had to smile when Shane and Shane's "Fringes" played right after my questioning God's ways in my life.
"Fringes" comes straight from Job and is all about God's majesty and authority over all creation. Job, being utterly confused by God's ways in his life is not given a direct answer to the "why?" question, only reminded of exactly who God is. And, in that moment last night, that was exactly the answer I needed. I don't honestly need to understand right now, only to be reminded that I've put my hope in a massive God who is utterly capable.
"Behold, these are but the fringes of his ways,and how small a whisper do we hear of him! But the thunder of his power who can understand?" Job 26:14
About that time, my iPod switched songs. My iPod is almost always set to "random shuffle" when I'm home. I love that it can go from Rascal Flatts to the Prestonwood Choir and Orchestra to Eleven Fingered Charlie to Brooke Frasier to Bing Crosby. It amuses me. And, occassionally, I'm absolutely convinced God orchestrates things just so the song I need to hear plays when I need it most. That's why I had to smile when Shane and Shane's "Fringes" played right after my questioning God's ways in my life.
"Fringes" comes straight from Job and is all about God's majesty and authority over all creation. Job, being utterly confused by God's ways in his life is not given a direct answer to the "why?" question, only reminded of exactly who God is. And, in that moment last night, that was exactly the answer I needed. I don't honestly need to understand right now, only to be reminded that I've put my hope in a massive God who is utterly capable.
"Behold, these are but the fringes of his ways,and how small a whisper do we hear of him! But the thunder of his power who can understand?" Job 26:14
Friday, November 14, 2008
Beauty
This week, I'm working on a workshop for teenage girls revolving around the theme of true beauty. I've been polling friends about their thoughts on beauty as well as trying to articulate my own opinions on the matter. I've read some great quotes, heard some very interesting ideas, and found myself being much more attune to my own notions of beauty. But, trying to define an idea is like trying to grab hold of a handful of water. It mostly escapes me.
This morning, I am pondering the idea of beauty once again, and one thought is pervassive. Jesus is beautiful. He is the common denominator in all that I can definitively call beauty. Whether one's concept of beauty stems from a physical form or an inner character radiating outward, all of it comes back to Him. His grace. His glory. His light made manifest in His creation.
"He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together." Colossians 1:15-17
This morning, I am pondering the idea of beauty once again, and one thought is pervassive. Jesus is beautiful. He is the common denominator in all that I can definitively call beauty. Whether one's concept of beauty stems from a physical form or an inner character radiating outward, all of it comes back to Him. His grace. His glory. His light made manifest in His creation.
"He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together." Colossians 1:15-17
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
History Making Moments
My current facebook status says, "Kristen wants to remember this day." I wrote that yesterday evening after the election results were tallied, and I'd listened to two very well-delivered speeches. I was laying on the floor, listening to the speeches, and watching facebook status updates. I was disappointed by how many people, disappointed that their candidate did not win the election, boldly declared they were turning off the television and going to bed.
Last night, whether you were a fan of the election's outcome or not, you had the opportunity to witness history, and I truly hope you didn't miss it or take it for granted. I didn't vote for Barack Obama, but I will pray for him. I do not necessarily like the choice America made last night, but I am so thankful that we had the freedom to make a choice. And while I am aware that the constitution of this great nation gives you the right to speak freely about your opinions on these matters, I would submit to those of you who are followers of Christ that a much greater law would encourage you to measure your words carefully, to let no unwholesome talk proceed from your mouth, to pray for your rulers, and to honor those in authority over you. Those of you who know me personally know that, for me, one of the most convicting verses in the Bible is Proverbs 10:19, "When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise."
History is happening. What part will you play?
Last night, whether you were a fan of the election's outcome or not, you had the opportunity to witness history, and I truly hope you didn't miss it or take it for granted. I didn't vote for Barack Obama, but I will pray for him. I do not necessarily like the choice America made last night, but I am so thankful that we had the freedom to make a choice. And while I am aware that the constitution of this great nation gives you the right to speak freely about your opinions on these matters, I would submit to those of you who are followers of Christ that a much greater law would encourage you to measure your words carefully, to let no unwholesome talk proceed from your mouth, to pray for your rulers, and to honor those in authority over you. Those of you who know me personally know that, for me, one of the most convicting verses in the Bible is Proverbs 10:19, "When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise."
History is happening. What part will you play?
Monday, October 27, 2008
Wonder House Costume Party 5.0
A pirate family ...
An escaped convict and a rockstar backup singer ...
The not-so-cowardly lion ...
A peacock, a go-rilla ballerina, and an ugly betty ...
Eat More Chikin! ...
Melissa and her super cute pumpkin rice krispy treats
The Ref, a Jeannie, and a rhinestone cowgirl ...
Eye Candy ...
Sarah Palin kissing Barack Obama???
An escaped convict and a rockstar backup singer ...
The not-so-cowardly lion ...
A peacock, a go-rilla ballerina, and an ugly betty ...
Eat More Chikin! ...
Melissa and her super cute pumpkin rice krispy treats
The Ref, a Jeannie, and a rhinestone cowgirl ...
Eye Candy ...
Sarah Palin kissing Barack Obama???
Friday, October 24, 2008
Worrying About Nothing
"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God, and the peace of God which passes all understanding will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7
I have the nothing but's. I worry about nothing but ... my family, my finances, things at work, my friends, things at church, national crises, and the future. You know, just the big things. I mean, that's okay, right? Everyone does it.
A couple of weeks ago, driving to work, I wasn't praying or petitioning or giving thanks, I was anxiously telling the Lord about all my worries when Philippians 4:6 came to mind. Several years ago I memorized that verse from The Message just because it was distilled into two simple phrases, "Worry about nothing; pray about everything." Nothing? NOTHING? Are you kidding me? Nothing but the big things right? Nothing but the things with life-altering potential, of course, right, Lord? Nothing. How? How? HOW????
Pray about everything ... with THANKSGIVING. Oh.
Last night I read this in Francis Chan's book, Crazy Love:
Both worry and stress reek of arrogance. They declare our tendency to forget that we've been forgiven, that our lives here are brief, that we are headed to a place where we won't be lonely, afraid, or hurt ever again, and that in the context of God's strength, our problems are small, indeed.
If you can't say "amen," you better say, "ouch" with me. :-\
I have the nothing but's. I worry about nothing but ... my family, my finances, things at work, my friends, things at church, national crises, and the future. You know, just the big things. I mean, that's okay, right? Everyone does it.
A couple of weeks ago, driving to work, I wasn't praying or petitioning or giving thanks, I was anxiously telling the Lord about all my worries when Philippians 4:6 came to mind. Several years ago I memorized that verse from The Message just because it was distilled into two simple phrases, "Worry about nothing; pray about everything." Nothing? NOTHING? Are you kidding me? Nothing but the big things right? Nothing but the things with life-altering potential, of course, right, Lord? Nothing. How? How? HOW????
Pray about everything ... with THANKSGIVING. Oh.
Last night I read this in Francis Chan's book, Crazy Love:
Both worry and stress reek of arrogance. They declare our tendency to forget that we've been forgiven, that our lives here are brief, that we are headed to a place where we won't be lonely, afraid, or hurt ever again, and that in the context of God's strength, our problems are small, indeed.
If you can't say "amen," you better say, "ouch" with me. :-\
Monday, October 20, 2008
It Ain't Braggin If You Can Do It
A little over two months ago, my dad called me one day at work. He wanted to sign up for a triathlon, but before he did so, he was making sure it wasn't going to interfere with my birthday plans. A Sunday morning triathlon? Five days after Yom Horton? I didn't seen any conflicts. After I hung up the phone, I got to thinking about my dad and his triathlons. He completed his first one three years ago, and this one would be his third for this year. I was just thinkin ... I called him back and asked what was involved in a sprint triathlon. 300 yard indoor swim, 13.5 mile bike ride, and a 3.1 mile run. It sounded challenging, but ... I was just thinkin. I asked to see his training schedule, so he sent it over. By the end of the day, my mom called talking about how excited Daddy was that I was gonna do this with him and how proud she was of me for being up to the challenge. Yeah, I was in deep. Thankfully, my roommate was up for the fun, too, so I had an in-town training partner. With just 10 weeks to go, we began following Big Dave's training plan. Running, biking, or swimming almost daily, and occassionally linking one to another to get a feel for the big event. Let me just say, I'm not sure anything really prepares you fully for Race Day, but I was as ready as I was gonna be by this weekend. And Big Dave was wound up! :-)
Here we are on our way to the staging area where we'd put our bikes while we swam and lay out our shoes and socks.
There were over 500 racers for this inagural event!
We swam first. The first person gets in the pool at the start time, then they put racers in every 10 seconds. You're lined up based on the swim time you turned in. Since I had no idea what my swim time was when I signed up, I told them 15 minutes to be sure I didn't get caught up with a buch of serious competitors (my goal, after all was just to finish!). Turns out, I'm not a bad swimmer. I finished in 8 minutes flat, 2 minutes faster than Daddy's time! I actually passed several people who got in the water ahead of me. :-)
Here I am about to mount my bike for the ride -- notice the beauty of my Wal-Mart special. Before I attempt this again, I will be shopping for a racing bike.
Here's Daddy hopping on his bike and taking off for the ride.
I need to say that my Mom was a TROOPER during this entire event. She cheered and encouraged and documented with photography all morning long. At this point, however,I was less than a mile from finishing the ride, coming up a slope, just ahead of dead last, and not feeling like much of a champion. She cheered for me like I was in first place, and I believe I told her to "shh!" Sorry, Mom, I really did appreciate it!
Finally, the moment you've all been waiting for. Jaclyn says I don't have ot tell you that I came in 3rd from last, but I'm really not ashamed. I had several nightmares a few weeks ago that I was dead last and that the whole place was cleared out and my "fans" were standing there with folded arms, annoyed yelling, barely even acknowledging my finish. This was not the case at all. They began yelling as soon as they could see me coming toward the finish, and they clapped, cheered, held up signs, and took pictures till I made it all the way across both mats. And, I finished nearly 10 minutes under my personal goal. I was thrilled -- and exhausted! I don't know that I'm a triathlete, not sure I wanna do this again or not, but I'm so glad that I did it at all. It felt amazing to set a goal like that, to struggle hard to achieve it, and have an incredible group of family and friends celebrate it with me in the end.
Here we are on our way to the staging area where we'd put our bikes while we swam and lay out our shoes and socks.
There were over 500 racers for this inagural event!
We swam first. The first person gets in the pool at the start time, then they put racers in every 10 seconds. You're lined up based on the swim time you turned in. Since I had no idea what my swim time was when I signed up, I told them 15 minutes to be sure I didn't get caught up with a buch of serious competitors (my goal, after all was just to finish!). Turns out, I'm not a bad swimmer. I finished in 8 minutes flat, 2 minutes faster than Daddy's time! I actually passed several people who got in the water ahead of me. :-)
Here I am about to mount my bike for the ride -- notice the beauty of my Wal-Mart special. Before I attempt this again, I will be shopping for a racing bike.
Here's Daddy hopping on his bike and taking off for the ride.
I need to say that my Mom was a TROOPER during this entire event. She cheered and encouraged and documented with photography all morning long. At this point, however,I was less than a mile from finishing the ride, coming up a slope, just ahead of dead last, and not feeling like much of a champion. She cheered for me like I was in first place, and I believe I told her to "shh!" Sorry, Mom, I really did appreciate it!
Finally, the moment you've all been waiting for. Jaclyn says I don't have ot tell you that I came in 3rd from last, but I'm really not ashamed. I had several nightmares a few weeks ago that I was dead last and that the whole place was cleared out and my "fans" were standing there with folded arms, annoyed yelling, barely even acknowledging my finish. This was not the case at all. They began yelling as soon as they could see me coming toward the finish, and they clapped, cheered, held up signs, and took pictures till I made it all the way across both mats. And, I finished nearly 10 minutes under my personal goal. I was thrilled -- and exhausted! I don't know that I'm a triathlete, not sure I wanna do this again or not, but I'm so glad that I did it at all. It felt amazing to set a goal like that, to struggle hard to achieve it, and have an incredible group of family and friends celebrate it with me in the end.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
We did it!
We collected close to 50 pair of shoes for the Cornerstone Christian Women's Job Corps Career Boutique from 30 individual contributors! And, we had a blast doing so!
Thank You:
D'Ann
Melissa
Sarah
Caedmon
Joanna
Gayla
Karen
Caleb
Dunn-Dunn
Tina
LaMo
Meghann
Maribeth
Kimbo
Beckie
Erika
Gabi
Wanda
Allison
Dave
Dana
Suzanne
Cody
Dia
Jim
Ann
Daddy
Mama
Ashleigh
Thursday, October 09, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Beautiful News in Beautiful Shoes
It's time to reveal the "project" for the actual day. We're almost to October 14. I have just five days left in my 20's. The Thirty for 30! project for October 14 is a shoe drive. Cornerstone Christian Women's Job Corps has a beautiful Career Wear Boutique that was originally set up by some wonderful volunteers from Fort Worth Presbyterian Church. All of our graduates and many other women from our community find gorgeous clothing to wear on business interviews, and when they land a job, they get to come pick out office appropriate attire for an entire week! My favorite day of Life Skills and Job Readiness Training is during the last week of class when volunteers come and meet with our ladies to offer hair cuts, styling, makeup tips, and shopping advice in the boutique. There's a transformation that comes over these women when they find an outfit that makes them feel confident and beautiful all at the same time. It's like everything they've been learning on the inside comes shining through. In collecting clothing for the boutique, we've gathered a few shoes and handbags here and there, but not really enough variety to really be sure all of our patrons take home the complete package. So, the Thirty for 30! project for October 14 is a CCWJC Shoe Drive with a goal of collecting 30 pair of women's dress shoes to put in the CCWJC Career Boutique! I've already collected 3 pair from sweet friends who can't join us during the drive, but wanted to participate.
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Record History
I was privileged to have a great-grandmother that lived to be 97 years old. We shared a close relationship right up to the end. I learned so much from listening to her talk about life. One of the best things I have ever been a part of happened a few years before her death. My other cousins and I asked Grandmother and her sister (Aunt Bea) to sit down and let us video tape an interview with them. We began by asking questions about their childhood, their family, their memoreies of dating and courtship, what it was like to be a young wife/mother during the Great Depression, what they remembered about various historical events, and what they perceived to be the greatest inventions of their lifetime. It was wonderful. We laughed so hard listening to them tell stories on each other of childhood adventures. We connected with them as we listened to them talk about their teenage years. We marveled at the things they endured and wondered over all the changed they'd seen.
I've been thinking about a Thirty for 30! post about nursing homes and visiting the elderly. Our culture is not known for valuing it's senior citizens. I thought about suggesting a sing-a-long or making time to go paint the female residents finger nails. But, if you want to plan a ministry event at a nursing home or senior citizens center that might have as much impact on you as it does on them, schedule some interviews! Google "grandparent interview" and you'll be amazed at the resources available. I really like this very comprehensive list from The Legacy Project. It generally only takes a few questions to get the ball rolling before you have more information than you could dream. Be sure you bring a video camera!
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Give Blood
Check out Carter BloodCare’s 56 Fascinating Blood Facts!
1. Anyone in good health, at least 17 years old, and at least 110 pounds may donate whole blood every 56 days.
2. 4.5 million American lives are saved each year by blood transfusions.
3. 32,000 pints of donated blood are used each day in the United States.
4. Someone needs blood every three seconds.
5. One out of ten hospital patients needs blood.
6. Three lives are saved by one pint of donated blood.
7. Ten pints of blood are in the body of an average adult.
8. One unit of blood is roughly the equivalent of one pint.
9. Blood makes up about 7% of your body's weight.
10. A newborn baby has about one cup of blood in his body.
11. An average red blood cell transfusion uses 3.4 pints.
12. Blood fights infection and helps heal wounds.
13. A, B, AB and O are the four main types of blood types. AB is the universal recipient, O negative is the universal donor.
14. Blood centers often run short of types O and B blood.
15. Shortages of all blood types happen during the summer and winter holidays.
16. If all blood donors gave two to four times a year, it would help prevent blood shortages.
17. You could donate 48 gallons of blood if you began at 17 years old and donate every 56 days until you reach 76 years old.
18. Three gallons of blood is used every minute in the United States.
19. There are four steps to donating blood: medical history, quick physical, donation and snacks.
20. The actual blood donation usually takes less than ten minutes. The entire process from the time you sign in to the time you
leave takes about an hour.
21. Giving blood will not decrease your strength.
22. You cannot get AIDS or any other infectious disease by donating blood.
23. 14 tests (11 for infectious diseases) are performed on each unit of donated blood.
24. Any company, community organization, place of worship or individual may contact their local community blood center
to host a blood drive.
25. People donate blood out of a sense of duty and community spirit, not to make money. They are not paid for their donation.
26. Much of today's medical care depends on a steady supply of blood from healthy donors.
27. One unit of blood can be separated into red blood cells, white blood cells, plasma, platelets and cryoprecipitate.
28. Red blood cells carry oxygen to the body's organs and tissue.
29. There are one billion red blood cells in two to three drops of blood.
30. Red blood cells live about 120 days in the circulatory system.
31. Platelets support blood clotting and give those with leukemia and other cancers a chance to live.
32. Apheresis (ay-fur-ee-sis) is a special kind of blood donation that allows a donor to give specific blood components, such as platelets.
33. The shelf life of donated red blood cells is 42 days.
34. The shelf life of donated platelets is five days.
35. The shelf life of frozen plasma is one year.
36. Plasma is a pale yellow mixture of water, proteins and salts.
37. Plasma, which is 90% water, constitutes 55% of blood volume.
38. Healthy bone marrow makes a constant supply of red cells, plasma and platelets.
39. Car accident and blood loss victims can need transfusions of 50 pints or more of red blood cells.
40. Bone marrow transplant patients need platelet donations from about 120 people and red blood cells from about 20 people.
41. Severe burn victims can need 20 units of platelets during their treatment.
42. Children being treated for cancer, premature infants and children having heart surgery need blood and platelets from donors of all types.
43. Anemic patients need blood transfusions to increase their iron levels.
44. Cancer, transplant and trauma patients, and patients undergoing open-heart surgery require platelet transfusions to survive.
45. Sickle cell disease is an inherited disease that affects more than 80,000 people in the United States, 98% of whom are of African descent.
Some patients with complications from severe sickle cell disease receive blood transfusions every month -- up to four pints at a time.
46. 500,000 Americans donated blood in the days following the September 11 attacks.
47. Females receive 53% of blood transfusions; males receive 47%.
48. 94% of blood donors are registered voters.
49. 60% of the U.S. population is eligible to donate blood — only 5% do.
50. 17% of non-donors cite "never thought about it" as the main reason for not giving, while 15% say they're too busy. The #1 reason donors
say they give is because they "want to help others."
51. After donating blood, you replace these red blood cells within four weeks. It takes eight weeks to restore the iron lost after donating.
52. Granulocytes, a type of white blood cell, roll along blood vessel walls in search of bacteria to eat.
53. White cells are the body's primary defense against infection.
54. There is no substitute for human blood.
55. Since a pint is a pound, you lose a pound every time you donate blood.
56. Blood donation. It's about an hour of your time. It's About Life.
1. Anyone in good health, at least 17 years old, and at least 110 pounds may donate whole blood every 56 days.
2. 4.5 million American lives are saved each year by blood transfusions.
3. 32,000 pints of donated blood are used each day in the United States.
4. Someone needs blood every three seconds.
5. One out of ten hospital patients needs blood.
6. Three lives are saved by one pint of donated blood.
7. Ten pints of blood are in the body of an average adult.
8. One unit of blood is roughly the equivalent of one pint.
9. Blood makes up about 7% of your body's weight.
10. A newborn baby has about one cup of blood in his body.
11. An average red blood cell transfusion uses 3.4 pints.
12. Blood fights infection and helps heal wounds.
13. A, B, AB and O are the four main types of blood types. AB is the universal recipient, O negative is the universal donor.
14. Blood centers often run short of types O and B blood.
15. Shortages of all blood types happen during the summer and winter holidays.
16. If all blood donors gave two to four times a year, it would help prevent blood shortages.
17. You could donate 48 gallons of blood if you began at 17 years old and donate every 56 days until you reach 76 years old.
18. Three gallons of blood is used every minute in the United States.
19. There are four steps to donating blood: medical history, quick physical, donation and snacks.
20. The actual blood donation usually takes less than ten minutes. The entire process from the time you sign in to the time you
leave takes about an hour.
21. Giving blood will not decrease your strength.
22. You cannot get AIDS or any other infectious disease by donating blood.
23. 14 tests (11 for infectious diseases) are performed on each unit of donated blood.
24. Any company, community organization, place of worship or individual may contact their local community blood center
to host a blood drive.
25. People donate blood out of a sense of duty and community spirit, not to make money. They are not paid for their donation.
26. Much of today's medical care depends on a steady supply of blood from healthy donors.
27. One unit of blood can be separated into red blood cells, white blood cells, plasma, platelets and cryoprecipitate.
28. Red blood cells carry oxygen to the body's organs and tissue.
29. There are one billion red blood cells in two to three drops of blood.
30. Red blood cells live about 120 days in the circulatory system.
31. Platelets support blood clotting and give those with leukemia and other cancers a chance to live.
32. Apheresis (ay-fur-ee-sis) is a special kind of blood donation that allows a donor to give specific blood components, such as platelets.
33. The shelf life of donated red blood cells is 42 days.
34. The shelf life of donated platelets is five days.
35. The shelf life of frozen plasma is one year.
36. Plasma is a pale yellow mixture of water, proteins and salts.
37. Plasma, which is 90% water, constitutes 55% of blood volume.
38. Healthy bone marrow makes a constant supply of red cells, plasma and platelets.
39. Car accident and blood loss victims can need transfusions of 50 pints or more of red blood cells.
40. Bone marrow transplant patients need platelet donations from about 120 people and red blood cells from about 20 people.
41. Severe burn victims can need 20 units of platelets during their treatment.
42. Children being treated for cancer, premature infants and children having heart surgery need blood and platelets from donors of all types.
43. Anemic patients need blood transfusions to increase their iron levels.
44. Cancer, transplant and trauma patients, and patients undergoing open-heart surgery require platelet transfusions to survive.
45. Sickle cell disease is an inherited disease that affects more than 80,000 people in the United States, 98% of whom are of African descent.
Some patients with complications from severe sickle cell disease receive blood transfusions every month -- up to four pints at a time.
46. 500,000 Americans donated blood in the days following the September 11 attacks.
47. Females receive 53% of blood transfusions; males receive 47%.
48. 94% of blood donors are registered voters.
49. 60% of the U.S. population is eligible to donate blood — only 5% do.
50. 17% of non-donors cite "never thought about it" as the main reason for not giving, while 15% say they're too busy. The #1 reason donors
say they give is because they "want to help others."
51. After donating blood, you replace these red blood cells within four weeks. It takes eight weeks to restore the iron lost after donating.
52. Granulocytes, a type of white blood cell, roll along blood vessel walls in search of bacteria to eat.
53. White cells are the body's primary defense against infection.
54. There is no substitute for human blood.
55. Since a pint is a pound, you lose a pound every time you donate blood.
56. Blood donation. It's about an hour of your time. It's About Life.
Monday, October 06, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Go to Prison
Some of you who've been keeping up will remember that this whole "Thirty for 30!" began after I attended a simulcast of the Willow Creek Leadership Summit in August. One of the most challenging and inspiring speakers there was a young woman (I can say that cause she's only a couple of years my senior) named Catherine Rohr from Prison Entrepreneurship Program. PEP recruits business professionals and MBA students to visit prisons and teach business courses to inmates preparing for life after parole. "PEP constructively redirects inmates' talents by equipping them with values-based entrepreneurial training enabling them to productively re-enter society." I think what I found so exciting about this program was the passion of the founder herself. Catherine was a relatively new Christ follower when she first became aware of the problems and needs within the Texas prison system, but she didn't turn her back on them. She faced them head on, actively engaged herself with the issues, and radically changed her personal life course in order to eternally impact the lives of countless others.
Sunday, October 05, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Shop Smart
Are you a smart shopper? Are you aware of what you and your family consume? Do you do what you can to spend your resources wisely? Take this quiz to find out just how much you know and learn ways to do better!
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Thirty for 30!: It Only Takes a Spark
Spark Ministry is one of the most exciting projects I've heard about in recent months. This is a ministry that helps women in the church serve other women around the nation. Spark sponsors short term mission trips for women where they get to bless other women in difficult situations. I haven't been on a Spark trip yet, but I have had the privilege of praying for them and helping scholarship one of their participants. Check out their website for more information!
Friday, October 03, 2008
We Interrupt Our Regularly Scheduled Broadcast ...
To bring you tears.
I'm not an overly emotional person. I generally let reason rule. And, I like it that way. I am not frequently moved to tears. I'm just not.
Yesterday, I cried. I've been doing that a little more lately. There's a situation going on with someone very near and dear to me that makes that happen. I can't seem to help it. Trust me, I would if I could. But, I can't.
This morning, I was thinking about tears. What are they for? What's the point? What am I supposed to do with all the icky feelings and emotions that cause them? Wouldn't it be better for all involved if I didn't cry so much right now?
Lately, I've noticed that if I let someone in on my tears, let them hear or see me cry, they try to fix it. They tell me that it's all going to be okay. They remind me that God's in control, that He is good, and that He will work all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. And, everything inside me wants to just scream, "I KNOW! I. KNOW."
My tears are not evidence of doubt. They are not disbelief. That's why the frustrate me so often. If I know it's all going to be fine in the end, why must I cry about it today?
This morning, as I was contemplating all of these things a very simple verse came to mind. "Jesus wept." Everyone knows it's the shortest verse in the bible. It's in the midst of the story of Lazarus, the friend of Jesus who was ill and died. Jesus shows up four days "late" and Lazarus' sisters are distraught with grief and disappointment. And, Jesus wept.
Why did Jesus weep? Did he weep because He didn't know God was in control? Did He weep because He wasn't sure how it was all going to work out for their good? Did He weep because He was helpless to do anything about it? Of course not!
Maybe Jesus wept because someone very near and dear to him was suffering. Maybe he wept because he knew the suffering was completely necessary, God-ordained pain that would ultimately be for their good and the Father's glory, but it was still suffering. Maybe he wept because there was no better way to demonstrate his compassion for his beloved friends.
I can't say definitively why Jesus wept, but realizing that it wasn't because he doubted God or was weak in faith has helped me accept my own tears for now.
For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin. ~ Hebrews 4:15
I'm not an overly emotional person. I generally let reason rule. And, I like it that way. I am not frequently moved to tears. I'm just not.
Yesterday, I cried. I've been doing that a little more lately. There's a situation going on with someone very near and dear to me that makes that happen. I can't seem to help it. Trust me, I would if I could. But, I can't.
This morning, I was thinking about tears. What are they for? What's the point? What am I supposed to do with all the icky feelings and emotions that cause them? Wouldn't it be better for all involved if I didn't cry so much right now?
Lately, I've noticed that if I let someone in on my tears, let them hear or see me cry, they try to fix it. They tell me that it's all going to be okay. They remind me that God's in control, that He is good, and that He will work all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. And, everything inside me wants to just scream, "I KNOW! I. KNOW."
My tears are not evidence of doubt. They are not disbelief. That's why the frustrate me so often. If I know it's all going to be fine in the end, why must I cry about it today?
This morning, as I was contemplating all of these things a very simple verse came to mind. "Jesus wept." Everyone knows it's the shortest verse in the bible. It's in the midst of the story of Lazarus, the friend of Jesus who was ill and died. Jesus shows up four days "late" and Lazarus' sisters are distraught with grief and disappointment. And, Jesus wept.
Why did Jesus weep? Did he weep because He didn't know God was in control? Did He weep because He wasn't sure how it was all going to work out for their good? Did He weep because He was helpless to do anything about it? Of course not!
Maybe Jesus wept because someone very near and dear to him was suffering. Maybe he wept because he knew the suffering was completely necessary, God-ordained pain that would ultimately be for their good and the Father's glory, but it was still suffering. Maybe he wept because there was no better way to demonstrate his compassion for his beloved friends.
I can't say definitively why Jesus wept, but realizing that it wasn't because he doubted God or was weak in faith has helped me accept my own tears for now.
For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet was without sin. ~ Hebrews 4:15
Thirty for 30!: Be a Fairy Godmother
Bippity Boppity Boo!
All of us who grew up dreaming of Cinderella wished for a fairy godmother to come along and wave a magic wand and help us feel beautiful at one time or another. The Glass Slipper Project is doing just that for young women in the Chicago area by taking donated formal dresses and setting up a boutique where moms and daughters can shop for prom dresses they'd never be able to afford otherwise. Women with a flair for style and fashion are finding a unique way to give back to their communities. Check out The Prom Shop Project which operates in Dallas and Austin, too!
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Be a Man
In July, I attended some work training hosted by Texas Baptist Men, and I absolutely fell in love with their ministry. This is a group of men who find out about a need and figure out a way to help meet it. They travel all over the WORLD helping out in disaster relief zones and providing clean drinking water in villages that have had none. The average age on their staff is about 74 years old, and no, I'm not kidding. They are awesome. Their motto is Anytime. Anyway. Anywhere. Love it!
If you're looking for a way to contribute to disaster relief efforts following this season's devastating hurricanes, if you're passionate about getting clean drinking water to remote areas, or if you just want the next generation of boys to grow up with a heart for fulfilling God's mission around the world, spend some time learning about Texas Baptist Men and find a way to support their work!
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Make Spaghetti
Earlier this year, my friends and I were presented with an opportunity to help a friend of a friend. We'd heard that Nina had been called to go on a mission trip but was struggling to come up with funds. It didn't take us long to decide that our weekly dinner together could easily become a fundraiser. By splitting up the cost of purchasing a few ingredients and getting creative with some advertising, we pulled together a happy little opportunity to bless someone we didn't know, believing that God would multiply our efforts. Did He ever! We raised significantly more than we would have believed we could, and while on her trip, our new friend sensed the call of God on her life to further mission endeavors. And, we had a blast making it happen! Never underestimate the power of spaghetti!
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Host a Lingerie Shower
Today has been one of those truly great days. Life's been fun and relatively easy and occassionally exciting in all directions. I was just telling Ginger about it, and her response to all this awesomeness was so clever. She said, "Go buy panties!" This may not make any sense at all to you, but to me, it makes perfect sense. Somewhere along the way, my friends and I began celebrating life's little achievements by purchasing new underwear. Sometimes, for small just normal happy days, you buy your own. But, for big, life-changing achievements others buy them for you. It's super fun. The truth is I think all women like to have new things, especially when it's something that's REALLY just for you. :-)
Now, I'll let you in on a little secret about me. I hate hearing the word "panties" said in public. I don't know why. I just do. It sounds wrong and awkward, particularly if it's a man saying it. This goes a long way back with me, and you're not likely to change it. That really wasn't necessary information for this post, just something I felt like sharing today.
So, today's idea is about panties. Well, really it's about all kinds of underwear and feminine products. There, now you're just as uncomfortable as I am. You say "panties" to me the next time we meet, and I'll bust out the "feminine products" lingo on you.
I really do have a point.
Your local abuse shelters, refugee relocation offices, and homeless shelters probably have a need for these items. Why not get your friends together and host a "lingerie shower" to gather underwear, feminine products, and hygeine items? It's another excuse to party with a purpose!
Monday, September 29, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Seek Justice
Did you know?
Human trafficking is the world’s third largest criminal enterprise, after drugs and weapons. (U.S. Department of State)
• Worldwide, there are nearly two million children in the commercial sex trade. (UNICEF)
• There are an estimated 600,000 to 800,000 children, women and men trafficked across international borders annually. (U.S. Department of State)
• Approximately 80 percent of human trafficking victims are women and girls, and up to 50 percent are minors. (U.S. Department of State)
• The total market value of illicit human trafficking is estimated to be in excess of $32 billion. (U.N.)
Did you also know?
• According to the United Nations Working Group on Contemporary Forms of Slavery, an estimated 20 million people were held in bonded slavery as of 1999.
• In 2004 there are more slaves than were seized from Africa during four centuries of trans-Atlantic slave trade. (Kevin Bales, Disposable People)
• In 1850 a slave in the Southern United States cost the equivalent of $40,000 today. According to Free the Slaves, a slave today costs an average of $90.
• Approximately two-thirds of today’s slaves are in South Asia. Human Rights Watch estimates that in India alone there are as many as 15 million children in bonded slavery.
"International Justice Mission is a human rights agency that secures justice for victims of slavery, sexual exploitation and other forms of violent oppression. IJM lawyers, investigators and aftercare professionals work with local governments to ensure victim rescue, to prosecute perpetrators and to strengthen the community and civic factors that promote functioning public justice systems."
He has showed you, O man, what is good.
And what does the LORD require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy
and to walk humbly with your God. ~ Micah 6:8
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Pray
As he closes his letter to the Ephesians, Paul writes, "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should." He knew that the power of his ministry, even under persecution and imprisonment, was in the prayer of the church.
Today, prayer is still the way God chooses to empower His workers around the world. You and I can be actively involved in what He's doing worldwide by praying for His Name to be exalted and His will to be accomplished through the lives of brothers and sisters we've never met.
The International Mission Board offers a variety of email newsletters containing specific prayer requests for workers in a variety of regions. Adopt a country, pray daily for God to be made famous in that place, and enjoy seeing how He blesses your obedience.
Voice of the Martyrs is another incredible organization, helping to shed light on the plight of the persecuted church around the world as well as offering excellent suggestions for how to pray for these suffering saints.
I Thessalonians 5:16-18 ~ Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
Today, prayer is still the way God chooses to empower His workers around the world. You and I can be actively involved in what He's doing worldwide by praying for His Name to be exalted and His will to be accomplished through the lives of brothers and sisters we've never met.
The International Mission Board offers a variety of email newsletters containing specific prayer requests for workers in a variety of regions. Adopt a country, pray daily for God to be made famous in that place, and enjoy seeing how He blesses your obedience.
Voice of the Martyrs is another incredible organization, helping to shed light on the plight of the persecuted church around the world as well as offering excellent suggestions for how to pray for these suffering saints.
I Thessalonians 5:16-18 ~ Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Host a Baby Shower
This is one of my FAVORITE ideas! There are numerous crisis pregnancy centers (CPC) in our area working to give women real choices regarding an uplanned pregnancy. Volunteers and staff at these centers offer a variety of services including: free pregnancy tests, counseling, ultrasounds, support groups, prenatal supplies, maternity clothes, and newborn layettes. Contact a crisis center near you and find out how your Sunday School Class, Bible study fellowship, MOPS group, or Playgroup can help support their very important work. One really fun way to do this is to get a list of items they provide to expectant or new mothers, then throw a "baby shower" in honor of your local CPC, asking guests to bring new items to benefit these brave women. It's a wonderful way to party with a purpose!
Friday, September 26, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Eat at Chili's!
Today's post is a guest appearance by my friend and fellow blogger, Erin:
Hi Everyone,
Monday, September 29 is St. Jude Chili’s Day and Chili’s restaurants are donating ALL of their profits to the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis, Tennessee. I am incredibly blessed to work for an organization who has committed to raising $10 million in 10 years. In just TWO years, Tri Delta has already raised $7.5 million and worked in partnership with Chili’s to build the Chili’s Care Center, which includes an entire Delta Delta Delta Patient Care floor. The Tri Delta floor includes 18 new inpatient suites, parent rooms with full bathrooms, a family lounge, teen room, and child life play area. In the near future, Tri Delta is hoping to further our partnership with St. Jude, and build an entire Delta Delta Delta Building!
So, if you feel so inclined, PLEASE plan to have lunch or dinner at Chili’s on Monday and contribute to the cause!
Erin
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Eat Lunch on the Go
Don't act like it's not something you already do. You know you eat in a hurry, in your car half the time anyway. Now, you can actually have a good excuse for doing this. Meals on Wheels, Inc. of Tarrant County is an excellent way to donate an hour of your time each week and be a blessing to many! And, if you don't live in Tarrant County, I'm sure there's a meal delivery program near you that can bless! Here's my TOP 5 reasons to deliver meals:
1. This is a really simple way to make someone's day. You'll be blessed way more than you can even imagine being a blessing.
2. Show Meals on Wheels staff and case management team how much you appreciate the work they're doing every day to care for the elderly, homebound, and disabled in your community.
3. Lead by example. Demonstrate volunteerism to children, friends, coworkers, and neighbors.
4. Be part of something much bigger than yourself. You'll meet some of the most fun and interesting people through this organization.
5. Have great stories to tell. Trust me. Just trust me.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Recycle
"The earth is the Lord's and everything in it,
the world and all who live in it." (Psalm 24:1)
I've come to believe that many American Christians don't like this verse, or maybe they just don't believe this verse because if they did like it and/or believe it, surely there would be a much broader push for the care and conservation of our natural resources. Think about it. The earth is the Lord's. He let's us live on it, enjoy all it has to offer, but we're only borrowers here.
What if I told you my friend let me borrow her car once. I drove it till it was empty, spilled a coke in the steering column, and left half of my tuna fish sandwich in an open baggie on the back dash to bake. And, last week when I asked to borrow her car again, she said, "sure!" :-\ You'd think my friend was an idiot, and I was a jerk.
Being conscientious caretakers of the Father's world is simply practicing good stewardship. Most of our cities have made recycling a breeze by providing seperate bins for us. If not, it's a minimal investment to purchase one yourself. Reducing excess water use, turning off lights, even purchasing rechargeable batteries are all simple ways to start. For more information visit this site or google "easy recyling."
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Clean Out Your Closets
You know you've been needing to do it for some time now. Today's the day! Clean. Out. Your. Closet. You've got clothes and shoes you haven't actually seen much less worn in YEARS. You've got coats -- more coats than we'll actually have cold spells this Texas winter. Clean. Them. Out. Why? Because there are people in your community who NEED them, not to decorate or clutter their closets, but to keep them and their families warm. If you want to know where to take your treasures, start here. Cornerstone Assistance Network in Fort Worth has a ministry that can put almost any of your items to good use. If we don't, I bet we know someone who does! Other agencies with whom you should check include Catholic Charities and World Relief.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Thirty for 30!: It's Peanut Butter Jelly Time
My boss is the director of the Cornerstone Community Center in Fort Worth, and he is absolutely full of wonderful ideas for community ministry. If you live nearby and need a community ministry consultant, I highly recommend him! Today's idea is one of his, and I think it's great! Jesse recommends involving children, as young as preschoolers, in a food drive for your local food pantry by hosting a peanut butter and jelly drive! Easier still is to tie a peanut butter and jelly drive/collection into your next children's ministry event. Make a jar of peanut butter or jelly the price of admission!
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Go Shopping
Today only, Coldwater Creek will donate $1 to Susan G. Komen for every person who comes into a store and tries on clothing. They'll also donate 10% of your total in-store purchase today to Susan G. Komen for the Cure. And, if I do say so myself, shopping is way more fun than eating yogurt!
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Care for Orphans
So far, Thirty for 30! has offered you fairly simple challenges you can incorporate into your regular living. Today, I'm stepping it up a notch or two ... or fifty! You see, last Saturday at a church event, I was visiting with some women, and our conversation led to a discussion of the horror stories we'd heard about child welfare/foster care agencies. About the time one of my sweet friends exclaimed, "I just can't believe who they let be foster parents sometimes!" we were all struck with a sobering reality. If none of us was willing to take children into our home, what right did we have to complain about those who are willing?
Before my mom and dad have a heart attack, I need to pause right here and say that at this time, as a nearly-30 year old single woman, living on a very modest salary, I am not currently making plans to take in foster children -- not yet. So, Big Dave and Little Steph can return to their regularly scheduled breathing habits.
Now, some of you are in a more stable position and may just need to take a few minutes to read thoughtfully over the information provided here. I don't whether or not the Lord's calling you to become a foster parent, or just to get actively invovled in supporting the foster care system, but I think it's a valid question to ask yourself before you dismiss it entirely. I do know He's incredibly clear in his Word that true religion involves caring for orphans and widows . I'm just sayin ...
Before my mom and dad have a heart attack, I need to pause right here and say that at this time, as a nearly-30 year old single woman, living on a very modest salary, I am not currently making plans to take in foster children -- not yet. So, Big Dave and Little Steph can return to their regularly scheduled breathing habits.
Now, some of you are in a more stable position and may just need to take a few minutes to read thoughtfully over the information provided here. I don't whether or not the Lord's calling you to become a foster parent, or just to get actively invovled in supporting the foster care system, but I think it's a valid question to ask yourself before you dismiss it entirely. I do know He's incredibly clear in his Word that true religion involves caring for orphans and widows . I'm just sayin ...
Friday, September 19, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Stay Up Late
What else are you gonna do on a Friday night? If you're within driving distance of Keller, Texas tonight, I highly recommend you make it out to Old Town Keller for a wonderful community event, the American Cancer Society's Relay for Life. From 6:00 p.m. to 6:00 a.m., you'll have the opportunity to celebrate the extraordinary lives of cancer survivors, remember those who fought bravely against the disease, and fight back with those who are currently doing battle. Join my friend Erika and the rest of the ACS team in Keller for this worthwhile event.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Respond
Our church put out a plea via email today. It seems that the local shelters housing evacuees from the recent hurricane disasters are in need of men's socks and t-shirts in XL, XXL, and XXXL. The church will be collecting these items between now and Sunday.
If you live nearby and want to drop off some of these items, feel free, but that's not the point of this post. The point I want to make today is exactly what the title says, RESPOND.
It is entirely too often that we hear of a need, even a simple need like this one, but we do nothing. And, I'd guess that most often it's not because we don't care. We honestly just can't fathom being stranded in an unfamiliar city, unable to go home, in need of something as basic as socks and t-shirts, and if we were to really think about that happening to us or someone we know and love, the grief would be paralyzing. So, we do nothing.
Today's Thirty for 30! challenge is simply to respond. Commit to yourself that the next time you hear of a need that's within your reach, you'll respond.
If you live nearby and want to drop off some of these items, feel free, but that's not the point of this post. The point I want to make today is exactly what the title says, RESPOND.
It is entirely too often that we hear of a need, even a simple need like this one, but we do nothing. And, I'd guess that most often it's not because we don't care. We honestly just can't fathom being stranded in an unfamiliar city, unable to go home, in need of something as basic as socks and t-shirts, and if we were to really think about that happening to us or someone we know and love, the grief would be paralyzing. So, we do nothing.
Today's Thirty for 30! challenge is simply to respond. Commit to yourself that the next time you hear of a need that's within your reach, you'll respond.
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Meet Your Neighbors
Do you know who lives next door? How about across the street? If someone on your block needed a cup of sugar, would they knock on your door? More importantly, if they had a need for prayer or a question about spiritual matters, would they know to come to you? I googled a bit and discovered that most "neighborhood ministries" are geared toward looking out of for the impoverished and disenfranchised. I absolutely support that, but not to the exclusion of our literal neighbors.
Acts 1:8 is our church's theme for ministry this year. It says, "But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." The idea of this passages seems to be that our witness begins with those closest to us and expands from there.
This one always gets me. You see, I don't know my neighbors. I've met the guy next door once. I've waved at the family across the street a couple of times. I received a mean note on my car once about parking on the wrong side of the street from one of them, but it was typed and unsigned. I'm not sure who did that. :-\
So, my goal this next year is to meet my neighbors, to pray for them, to pray with them, to let it be known that my home is a place of prayer and their needs and concerns and questions about faith are welcome here in hopes that it just might make a difference.
If you're wondering about what to do once you've introduced yourself, www.meettheneighbors.org offers some good suggestions.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Ride Your Bike
Last week I got schooled by a 79 year old man on a bicycle! I was finishing up my ride for the day, struggling in my last mile coming up to the house when a white bearded man on a gorgeous performance bike pulled up next to me and my wal-mart speed racer. After a gentle lecture about always traveling with water, he proceeded to ride alongside me, visiting about bike riding, his 9 years' experience riding for Team in Training, and how this year's ride in Tucson will likely be his last. "Why?" I wondered allowed -- that whole nosy thing, you know. I seriously about wrecked my bike when he answered, "Well, at 79, I figure I'll have to stop sometime, and this year, I'm actually starting to feel the strain of training." Wow!
It'll be a while before me and my Walmart special are ready for 109 miles around Tucson, but on October 18, there's a more local opportunity to support a great cause. Tour de Cure is a bike ride around Texas Motor Speedway benefitting the American Diabetes Association. And, they've got events going on around the country! Check them out!
Monday, September 15, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Increase Your Vocabulary
I love words. I can't help it. I just do. There are few things in life more satisfying than finding the right word to accurately communicate an idea. That's why I love www.freerice.com. It's an online vocabulary quiz, and the prize for each correct answer is a donation of 20 grains of rice made through the UN World Food Program. And, if you miss a word, you're provided with the correct answer and an opportunity to keep playing!
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Thirty for 30!: Eat Yogurt
While cleaning the kitchen Saturday morning, my roommate produced a plastic sandwich baggie that held a spoon and several foil tops from the yogurt she takes to work for lunch most days. I thought it odd that the foil tops were coming back to the house, so I asked what she was doing with them. "I'm washing them," she replied matter of factly, as though that should be obvious. Indeed, she was running them under the faucet, so I guess I could have figured that one out, but the bigger question in my mind was WHY? So, being the nosy roommate that I am, I continued my probing into her strange behavior. That's when I discovered she was planning to mail them back to Yoplait because they'll donate 10 cents to Susan G. Komen for the Cure, a breast cancer research foundation, for each one she sends them. Frankly, I'm a lot more likely to just get online and make an online donation than to save and wash and mail yogurt lids, but I admire her dedication to doing what she can to make her breakfast/lunch treat count. And, we do consume a lot of yogurt in this house. I wonder how many labels we can come up with in the next few weeks!
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